2010-01-27 19:10:13
Posted by TwistedMr
Category: Personal Blogs
adding info that doesnt fit in my profile area
Hi everybody,
I've received a few emails from other users that I have not responded to. The main reason is, I have no clue why they sent me a message. When I get messages that are so general that they could have been sent to anyone, I usually assume that they HAVE been sent to everyone.
Unfortunately, my profile space is not adequate for me to spell out as much as I would like, about what I hope people will do with my profile. So here are some added thoughts:
It makes NO SENSE to me, for people hundreds or thousands of miles away from my location to send me email about "getting together". I am not myself a jet-setter, nor do I aspire to be a part of a globetrotter's lifestyle. I do not intend to drive long distances for romance, nor can I host out-of-towners.
I'm an older guy with less than 'athletic' sexual desires. When I get mail from very buff looking young men, who say nothing about why they selected me in particular to send a message to, I tend to assume they are looking for paying customers.
A few messages have invited me to chat, but to chat about what (?) they don't say. So I don't respond.
I have spend enough time gay dating and gay chatting that I know for sure that I DO NOT FIT within the typical popular parameters of gay contact searching. That is, I DO NOT FUCK OR GET FUCKED. Sucking is ok but not my favorite activity. I like mutual masturbation, massage, porn and fictional fantasy.
I've dabbled in bondage and s&m, think pain is interesting, but have no interest whatsoever in a 24/7 type master/slave or dom/sub or daddy/son lifestyle. I like the idea of kinky playtime activities, but they stay totally contained within the playtime. I have no desire to behave in public, or to "dress up" in public, in order advertise my interests.
I was spanked for bed-wetting between the ages of 5 and 8. This may or may not explain the kinks in my fantasy imagination that include spanking, wetting, and childhood. I have found irc chatrooms on the undernet network where I have often talked about such topics, and I know I enjoy talking about that. There are some fantasy topics that I KNOW will remain fantasy-only, and that is fine with me.
I am a person of very modest means and limited income. I do not intend to be giving financial aid to anyone I meet in this venue.
I hope that this blog plus my profile contains enough to attract someone of similar mind. If someone sends me a message that fails to establish exactly what it was that prompted them to send me the message, then I have no clue if they have a "similar mind" or not. Thus, they will not hear back from me.
