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#1 2009-11-02 08:56:57

bajabob
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Fear of HIV men

Why are so many gay men afraid of hiv poz men? So many times when I reply to and add and addmit that I am poz its the last I hear from that person . As long as you use condoms you have nothing to fear from me. we can kiss and have oral sex just like everybody else.

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#2 2010-01-01 16:54:18

NutBustn
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Re: Fear of HIV men

This might sound crazy to some, But I find putting down no preference to safe or bareback I get more responses. Seems that most HIV+ guys figure that only after we get together will it be decided if it's going to be a condom night. I like to sit and chat before jumping into bed with someone to know where they are coming from, what they expect to happen and what our limits are.

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#3 2010-01-06 01:31:31

redcross
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Re: Fear of HIV men

oh please...everyone knows that if you meet a guy at your house for the first time, for sure theres going to be sex involved..come over and we will cuddle and watch a movie and get to know each other, cause thats what im looking for, is to get to know someone....ha ha ha ha ha h ha....might be true, but not entirely...


as for men running away when you state your HIV status. people fear the unknown. and generalize it wayyyy out of perportion. although it is something to fear. i myself am HIV + and i am also a nurse. i have had several patients dying from numerous different infections that someone who wasnt comprimised wouldnt die from. people see things and fear is the first thing that feel. its not there fault people fear us. and honestly when i was negative, i was the sameway!. being HIV + is a life changing diagnoses. personally i probably havent seen the worst part yet, i have started medications since one year now and side affects is just a $#%$# piss off....lol..god...that atripila bull $#%$...that stuff is strong...i got off that!.

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#4 2010-06-13 01:23:44

StillViable
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Re: Fear of HIV men

i'm 67 and suppose caught the virus from my 25 y/o boyfriend that i have lived with for 5 yrs. we had an open relationship and i assumed he was playing safe but you know young guys, they think it only happens to someone else. he has been pos for 3 yrs and i for 6 mos. i take the medication and have no more side effects than i would get from an aspirin. as for him, he's asian, side effects were very slight at first and nothing now but for unknown reasons (to me) we play safe when having sex together and now don't involve others. Oh, we live in thailand and there are very good, and cheap programs here.

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